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远距离的爱情
Monday, May 17, 2010 @ 5/17/2010 07:02:00 PM
要开始一段远距离的爱情,必须清楚以下几点:

1。他不能无时无刻都在你的身边,你们或许一个月、三个月,甚至半年才能见一次面。每一次见面,或许只有区区的三、四天,甚至更少。

2。当你生病的时候,不要期望他会端你温水,让你服药,因为他或许在另外一头忙得不可开交。

3。当他生病的时候,随时聆听他对你的埋怨、娇嗲,他或许会埋怨说,你不能及时在他的生病出现,虽然在你生病的时候他也一样没见踪迹。

4。当你一连发他几封短讯,他没有回复你,你开始担心他的安危,不知道他究竟在做些什么。多心的你,或许会想到他遭逢不测。越是紧张,你越怀疑自己是否能够承受得了这段感情。

5。当你的身边一直出现成天粘在一块的情侣的时候,你心里面有些妒嫉、羡慕,为什么他和你的距离竟相差那么远。

6。当你某些重要的日子,如生日、情人节,而他又不在你的身边的时候,你要懂得自己找节目。这个时候,你会发觉身边的朋友,似乎比他来得更为重要。

7。当你厌倦了远距离恋爱,你的脑子会有一刻闪出要和他分手的理由,这个时候,你要让自己的情绪平稳下来,告诉自己,这并不是什么,你可以承受得住。

8。当你发觉自己已经没有信心谈这段恋爱的时候,不要把这种感觉抑郁在心里面,坦诚地向他说明,让他知道你的多心。他爱你,自然会想尽办法消除你心里面的郁结。摆在心里面,只会让你变得越来越缺乏信心,而且还会自怨自艾。

9。他或许不能三时五刻随时和你联络,你有很多事情,他可能成为最后一个知道的人。相同的,他不想让远方的你担忧,很多事都等解决了以后才告诉你结果。不要生气他为什么不告诉你,他不想让你担忧。这是他爱的表现,你要习惯、接受、包容。

10。很多时候,听别人说:“距离不是问题。”这个是每个人都了解的道理,可是实践的是自己。你必须要有很大的决心、信心。距离是不是你们两个人真正的问题?就算你们的距离被缩小,问题依然存在吗?不要怪罪距离,适当的沟通能够化解这个障碍。静下来思考,你们的爱,是否能够经得起这个考验?

当你发现自己在生理上、心理上已经准备好这一切,请接受他,并承诺,最后不要以“遥远的距离”为你们分手的烂理由。倘若,他真的是值得你所爱的人。

Posted by lifen♔ at 5/17/2010 07:02:00 PM
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